27 August 2016

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Tags: Educators

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Categories: Reflections, Saints

St Monica was born to a Christian family in North Africa in 333 A.D. Married as a young girl to Patritius, a pagan who held an official position in Tagaste, her life was filled with disappointment and trial, for Patritius was a quarrelsome and demanding husband. Faced with daily tensions and difficulties in her unhappy marriage, St Monica continually displayed a profound and dedicated love for God through constant habits of prayer, almsgiving, and acts of charity. These annoyed Patritius, and became, without a doubt, the cause of significant friction in their marriage. Monica refused to ignore her duty toward the words of Christ, “Come, follow me” (Mt 4:19). St Monica is well-regarded because of her son, St Augustine of Hippo, who took after his father. She was responsible for his conversion before her death in 387 AD. So what can educators learn from St Monica?

Have faith in the presence of God despite the environment
St Monica married into a non-Catholic family. Her mother-in-law and her husband were not Christians and were unhappy with her daily devotions to God. Her marital environment would have caused many other women to despair and eventually give up their faith for the sake of peace. But not St Monica. As educators, St Monica is a role model who teaches us that even though teachers work in secular environments, it is possible to continue with our Catholic faith. While teachers may not be allowed to pray publicly and talk about God to students publicly (MOE has clear guidelines on evangelisation in schools), they can exhibit their faith through their daily actions. Catholic educators in non-Catholic schools can display a love of God by doing their work well, caring for the students under their charge and submitting to their supervisors in obedience to God. For Catholic educators in Catholic schools, there is more room to display and grow your faith. Catholic educators can volunteer to teach RCCE, lead prayers at morning assembly, lead catholic activities in schools, and help organise masses for the students.

Pray for conversion
Despite having a difficult husband and son, St Monica saw beauty in her life’s work. Her daily habit of prayer and persistence in living a holy life converted both her husband and son. Educators today sometimes work in hostile environments with demanding parents and uninterested students. Like St Monica, educators can pray for their conversion. Instead of reacting negatively at a parent or a student expressing their unhappiness at the system or at us, teachers can offer up prayers for them. Their conversion may not come about immediately—St Monica prayed for her son for 17 years.

See meaning and beauty in the vocation
Although St Monica had a very difficult time as a wife and mother, she still saw the beauty of her vocation. St Augustine lived a life of laziness and impurity by his own admission. Yet because of his mother’s prayer and labour over 17 years, St Augustine is today one of 33 Doctors of the Catholic Church, the Doctor of Grace and the Doctor of Doctors. It appears that the conversations St Augustine had with his mother in her last years was that they pondered what it might be like “to share the eternal life enjoyed by the saints, ‘which eye has not seen, nor ear heard, which has not even entered into the heart of man'” (1 Cor 2:19). Educators can try to see the beauty of their vocation. Visualising what the students can be when they are fully matured, educators can see past their present behaviours. A student who may be unmotivated and aggressive may become an important influential person in the next decade. Educators can and do impact students’ lives positively. From the lives of St Monica and St Augustine, educators can realise that no student is a lost cause. Educators must know that students can and do change for the better. Keeping your focus on the students’ development will enable all educators to see the beauty in the vocation. Like St Monica, educators are called to be the model of a virtuous parent.

22 August 2016

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Tags: Educators, Parents, Students

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Categories: News

ACCS Tribute Sr Deirdre

Catholic educators in Singapore, along with the CHIJ family of schools, mourn the loss of Sr Deirdre O’Loan, supervisor of the Convent of the Holy Infant Jesus (CHIJ) Schools. Sr Deirdre – or “Sister D”, as her students fondly called her – returned to the Lord on the morning of 13 August, Saturday, at 83-years-old.

A stalwart in Singapore’s Catholic education scene, Sr Deirdre committed her tireless efforts to the improvement and growth of our local Catholic schools. The eldest daughter of an Irish family, she became a nun at the age of 17, and taught in Malaysia for several years before coming to Singapore in 1974. She began teaching General Paper in Catholic Junior College upon its founding in 1975, and took on several leadership roles in her time at the school (Head of English department, vice-principal and principal).

Sr Deirdre left a lasting impression on her students at CJC, who remember her as a stern, yet warmly approachable, mother figure. From giving words of encouragement to students personally, to straightening out their uniforms, Sr Deirdre struck an impeccable balance between discipline and compassion. Khairul Nizam, 39, a CJC alumnus, fondly remembers Sister D as an educator who valued character above academic brilliance, with an open door policy. “She was probably the only person who could chastise me but would earn none of my contempt,” he recalled. “I felt that she had my interests at heart, unlike other authority figures that I had dealings with.”

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Another CJC graduate, Simon Tan, 51, said her faith in him helped to realise his potential and become a litigation lawyer. “When I did badly in the examinations, Sister D never took me to task. I remember her faith in me. It gave me greater resolve and fortitude to do my ‘A’ Levels again as a private candidate during my National Service. Without Sister D, I would have given up and despaired.”

Upon completing her six-year stint as the principal of CJC, she was appointed the Supervisor of the Convent of the Holy Infant Jesus (CHIJ) Schools in 1994. Overseeing 11 convent schools, Sr Deirdre worked closely with their principals, offering invaluable guidance, support and spiritual direction. Throughout her 22 years of service on the CHIJ Board of Management, she was known to many in the IJ community – students and teachers alike – for her generosity, love and wisdom.

For Vivienne Lim, chairman of the CHIJ Board of Management, one thing that stood out for her was how everyone was important to Sr Deirdre. “I was constantly amazed at how she remembered the names and details of so many persons, from staff to the carpark attendant,” she said. “This stemmed from the fact that to her, every person she met was important and worth her attention and concern.”

In recognition of her immense contribution to Singaporean education, she was presented with the Public Service Star (Bintang Bakti Masyarakat) by President Tony Tan Keng Yam during the Investiture of the 2014 National Day Awards.

Indeed, Sr Deirdre left an indelible mark on the lives she has touched. In her lifetime, one of her favourite quotes is by the Blessed Father Nicholas Barre, “Whatever happens, remain always in peace and trust in God”. Ms Lim remembers how Sr Deirdre always emphasised how each child is a unique creation of God and gifted with unique qualities, and how schools should serve to draw out the best in each and every child. “Sister D gave her entire life to God, to educating our young and forming them with God’s love. We are the beneficiaries of her sacrifice.”

15 August 2016

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Tags: Educators

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Categories: Reflections, Saints

John Vianney was born in 1786 in Dardilly, France, one of Catholic farmers Matthieu and Marie Vianney’s six children. He grew up in the anticlerical ‘Reign of Terror’ during the French Revolution, marked by the infamous mass guillotine executions. Priests were on the run and celebrated Mass stealthily. Young John Vianney regarded these priests as heroes and grew up wanting to become one.

At 20, John was allowed to leave his family to further his education in a school. He had the intention to join the priesthood but struggled in his studies, especially in his learning of Latin (required for all priests). John was many times deemed unfit for Holy Orders. His studies were again interrupted when he was drafted into Napoleon Bonaparte’s army in 1809. It is believed that because of his poor health, John was left behind while the troops continued without him. He then met a man who brought him to a place where deserters stayed. There, he remained for one and a half years before amnesty was granted to deserters in 1810. Finally, John was able to continue his ecclesiastical studies. He was ordained a deacon in 1815 and became the Curé (equivalent of parish priest) of Ars three years later.

The story of St John Vianney’s struggle to fulfil his purpose in life holds some relevant lessons for Catholic educators today.

1. The constant struggle to upgrade and update content and pedagogy
Just as the French priests of the 18th Century were heroes for St Vianney, educators today are heroes to our youth. We work in a difficult environment of high expectations, long hours and face constant pressure to improve ourselves. As educators, we can definitely identify with St Vianney’s difficulty in keeping up with the acquisition of knowledge. Yet, we can take courage in knowing that we are not alone, and that even saints had a hard time learning too.

2. Educating the ignorant and indifferent
As the parish priest of Ars, St Vianney realised that many of the parishioners were not properly informed about the faith, or were indifferent. He spent many hours listening to confessions and giving homilies to educate them. In a span of 30 years, the number of pilgrims who visited Ars to confess to him reached 20,000.

Like St Vianney, we too, face students who lack the will to learn. We spend long hours every week planning lessons to help our students learn effectively. Although our work can be draining and arduous, we can look to St John Vianney for strength and inspiration. Always remember that our work contributes to the spiritual and intellectual well-being of God’s children.

3. Recharge
Even a saint can be tempted to give up at times – St Vianney tried to run away from his priestly duties at Ars four times! But eventually, he learned to accept the task given to him, and devoted the rest of his life to his congregation. Although we may have moments when we feel like giving up on our students and the education mission altogether, it becomes easier to persevere when we are reminded of our duty as educators. Take time to recharge if you must, but don’t let despair derail you from our meaningful vocation.

As St Vianney entrusted his efforts to God, let us also ask Him to be our strength and fortify us in our work as educators:

“I love You, O my God,
and my only desire is to love You
until the last breath of my life.
I love You, O my infinitely lovable God,
and I would rather die loving You,
than live without loving You.
I love You, Lord,
and the only grace I ask is to love You eternally.
My God, if my tongue cannot say in every moment that I love You,
I want my heart to repeat it to You as often as I draw breath.
Amen.”